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I believe life gives you what you focus on. I decided I would help out by giving you something to think about every day. I will post a new thought (less than a minute read) with the goal of giving you something useful to ruminate on around happiness. If you want Happy delivered directly to your email at no charge, feel free to subscribe by hitting the button below. Life's busy, I aim to help you enjoy it.

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Post 52: Better than Blame

November 14, 20221 min read

Blaming seems to be a pretty standard reaction in life. This does not appear to be helpful in most circumstances. I say this because many times the problem is there whether we like it or not. Something in the workplace is not functioning correctly. Something in the environment is messed up. A system created in the past is not effective today. A typical response seems to be to blame the person who is closest to it.

It seems like it would be much more effective to do something like this:

Notice there is an issue. Find someone else that is dealing with said issue. State something to the effect of, “I see there is an issue here. Would you work with me to improve it?”

Blame seems to be a way to not take responsibility. I am sure it is great that people don’t think I screwed up. I think it would be far better if people saw me as a person who takes responsibility and does something about it. What if everyone did that?

~Ryan Lynch

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