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I believe life gives you what you focus on. I decided I would help out by giving you something to think about every day. I will post a new thought (less than a minute read) with the goal of giving you something useful to ruminate on around happiness. If you want Happy delivered directly to your email at no charge, feel free to subscribe by hitting the button below. Life's busy, I aim to help you enjoy it.

- Ryan Lynch

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Post 37: I Think the Worst Pain is Regret

October 30, 20221 min read

I have a choice. I can choose to focus on getting what I want. I can also choose to focus on staying away from what I don’t want.

This is scary. What if I go after what I want and fail? Figure out a different way. What if that fails? Find people who got what I want and see if I can follow their system. What if that fails? Attempt again.

What if I get what I want?  That could be even more upsetting. What if I get what I want and then find out I didn’t actually want it? The point is I am never going to know if I don’t choose something and go after it.

I have known many people who stay in the same safe, little space they have carved out for themselves and just complain? Over a lifetime, I will fail. If I take enough shots, by the law of large numbers, some are highly likely to succeed. I am going to have to come across something over a lifetime that is an object or a goal I actually want if I just keep looking. When I find that thing, or those things, I focus on getting more.     

~Ryan Lynch

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