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I believe life gives you what you focus on. I decided I would help out by giving you something to think about every day. I will post a new thought (less than a minute read) with the goal of giving you something useful to ruminate on around happiness. If you want Happy delivered directly to your email at no charge, feel free to subscribe by hitting the button below. Life's busy, I aim to help you enjoy it.

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Post 173: The Virtue of Selfishness

March 15, 20231 min read

Me wanting to do good for you for a selfish reason makes me more likely to do it. Finding my selfish reasons for doing what I love in my life is a good thing.

If I did all this because I felt I had to, I doubt I would be doing any of it for very long. This blog would not exist. My eventual book would not come to fruition. Doing things I don’t want to, because I think it will make others happy, makes me feel used and annoyed.

I absolutely love helping people. I love writing this blog. I love the conversations all this leads to. I want all these things so badly. Me being selfish means I work hard for you. Me taking the time to selfishly find what makes me happy, leads to me interacting with the world from a place of joy.

~Ryan Lynch

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