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Post 68: Can I Love that Part Too?

November 30, 20221 min read

A question I find myself asking regularly, both of myself and others is: can I love that part too?

I found a thought that makes me ashamed of myself. Can I love that part too?

I did something I am most definitely not proud of. Can I love that part too?

I caught myself being a dick. Can I love that part too?

I am not perfect. I have yet to meet a perfect person. The thing is I seem to be completely at peace with this lack of perfection in others, while I am ready to rip myself to shreds at a moment’s notice when I find imperfections in myself.

One path through is to realize when I hold on to shame, guilt, or anything else that makes me feel terrible, I am forcing myself to live in those feelings. If I can love these feelings, they will still come to visit every once in a while. They will stop being my roommates though.

~Ryan Lynch

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