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I believe life gives you what you focus on. I decided I would help out by giving you something to think about every day. I will post a new thought (less than a minute read) with the goal of giving you something useful to ruminate on around happiness. If you want Happy delivered directly to your email at no charge, feel free to subscribe by hitting the button below. Life's busy, I aim to help you enjoy it.

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Post 1,360: The Focus Muscle

June 14, 20261 min read

Shifting my focus is a muscle. I spent the first twenty-five plus years of my life searching for what is wrong. Putting in that many reps made me extremely powerful in noticing problems. To move from that concentration to a new one of my choosing has taken time on task.

I have had to notice when I am watching for a problem, recenter myself, and then redirect my attention to what I want to be looking for.

So, my first workout was to make that shift. Stop scanning for the bad stuff, start looking for the good I choose.

I can tell you; the muscle is strong now. I can sense the feelings I want less of, and immediately redirect to the questions that get me where I want to go.

It is a muscle. It must be worked out. And maybe stop flexing the “What’s wrong?” muscle so much while I’m at it.

~Ryan Lynch

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