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I believe life gives you what you focus on. I decided I would help out by giving you something to think about every day. I will post a new thought (less than a minute read) with the goal of giving you something useful to ruminate on around happiness. If you want Happy delivered directly to your email at no charge, feel free to subscribe by hitting the button below. Life's busy, I aim to help you enjoy it.

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Post 1,352: A Reason to Not Cover Your Butt

June 06, 20261 min read

I notice a trend of people saying something, then immediately explaining that the negative interpretation of what they said is not what they intended. Even if it is patently obvious what they meant.

This type of defense seems like it brings up the negative thought more often than if I just trusted the other person to know what I mean. It also feels like a cover to control the other person and make sure they know I am not trying to hurt them.

I would much rather assume the person I am having a conversation with has positive intent. It creates so much less tension.

~Ryan Lynch

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