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I believe life gives you what you focus on. I decided I would help out by giving you something to think about every day. I will post a new thought (less than a minute read) with the goal of giving you something useful to ruminate on around happiness. If you want Happy delivered directly to your email at no charge, feel free to subscribe by hitting the button below. Life's busy, I aim to help you enjoy it.

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Post 1,328: The Listener

May 13, 20261 min read

All my life, I have been the person others come to in order to talk about the issues they are having in their lives. I love this role. It makes me feel so good to be trusted, and I feel even better when the person who trusts me walks away feeling heard.

The interesting part about this is it is extremely difficult for me to go to someone to discuss my problems. Even though I know it will help. Even though I know I will give the other person the feeling of being trusted I so adore. I still have difficulties.

I am the guy. I am the confidant. For some reason, I have to be above it all in order to fulfill that role.

I think about how selfish and arrogant this view is, and it is still difficult.

Maybe you are like me, and you are the person others come to. Remember, you are just like them. You need someone too.

Maybe you have someone like me. Please remember to ask them about what is going on in their world occasionally as well.

~Ryan Lynch

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